What’s a resolution?

New year, new you?

We’re in the middle of the traditional January refrain.

While I’m still very much a work in progress, I do take exception to the idea that now we should all diet, detox, or exercise more. That last one I can’t argue with, but it’s not a once a year decision and you’re done.

It brought to mind a conversation I recently had with my son.  Very out of the blue, he announced he was going to miss MacDonalds.

Turns out it was because it was his treat with Grandma and I always say no.

I broke the news to him that as a parent, it’s my job to make the little decisions every day, and hope they are mostly the right ones, so that he grows up into a healthy, happy, and nice person. That wasn’t Grandma’s job.

Maybe that’s why New Year’s resolutions seem a bit discordant. While it’s good to have a goal, what are the little everyday decisions that get you there?

My son’s eye roll confirmed it’s not the most exciting concept! And, also much easier said than done…

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