I was out recently with my almost 13 year old daughter when she asked me when is it ok to swear?
It’s obviously very context specific…
Grandparents and teachers lie this side of (almost) never (we needed to leave room for exceptional circumstances…).
With us parents, we thought a little bit closer to sometimes as long as it was in relation to a) something surprising, b) painful, or c) funny, and not aggressively.
Friends, up to your judgement. But it probably doesn’t make you sound as cool as you hope…
And in a situation fast getting out of your control?
Maybe. But she thought the most effective thing might be sticking with your friends and finding the quickest and safest exit.
My job here is done.
Though I’m still waiting for evidence that she can judge the context correctly…
Tough Mother 